December 07, 2005 05:30am
Ask a Swinger About Lovemaking
by: Julie Wild
Feel the Heat! Questions about hot and sexy lovemaking. This weeks mail bag was full of questions, stories and comments on hot and sexy lovemaking. These stories were so hot, only a fireman could put out the fire. See what's on the minds of my readers.
My name is Ralph and I am a fireman. I would be honored to have the opportunity for some hot, passionate, lustful love making. You sound like the right woman for my sexual desires. I would love the chance to spoil, pamper and please you all night long in bed. I want to feel your heat and passion. I want to taste your sweetness and I want our fires to consume one another. Please let me know what I can do to have this fantasy with beautiful you.
Ralph from PA
Your offer sounds too good to be true. You sound like my kind of guy. The best way to get to know me is to enter my "Win a Date with Julie" contest. There is nothing to buy and each month I chose a winner for an evening on the town including a visit to my favorite swing club.
Dear Coach Julie,
I am sure you have heard many stories about one night stands, but this one is really hot. I was working nights at a bookstore about two years ago. I was trying to earn some extra spending money.
This really nice looking older lady came in shopping. I noticed she was looking at the books on lovemaking techniques, especially on prolonged orgasms. I could not help but take a double look and even let her catch me starring.
As the store was about to close, she asked me if I was single. When I explained that I was single and trying to earn some extra money, she asked me if I was interested in making some extra money after work. Of course I eagerly agreed and asked what she had in mind.
She wrote down her address and asked me to stop by at 10 pm. I closed the store, ran home, showered and changed. On my way to her home, I fantasized about seeing my mature lady again. When I rang the doorbell, boy was I surprised. It was not just my lady customer, but my lady customer and the most beautiful woman I have ever seen.
She introduced the lovely young lady as her niece from out of state. It seemed that her niece was still a virgin at the age of 30, so her nice aunt agreed to help by bringing home a young man.
I was thinking that I was being set up with the young women, well that is not exactly what the aunt had in mind. She starts to make small talk, when all of a sudden the aunt starts to kiss me all over and undress me at the same time.
She then invited her niece to join her. Soon I was being undressed and seduced by a 30 year old beautiful women and her 50 year old aunt. We ended up having a threesome which lasted until 3 am. I spent the night and have seen the two of them several times since we first met.
Your story is one of the hottest I have heard in a long time. Let me know if you have any more customers like her.
I have a pantyhose fetish. It is a fetish like all other fetishes. It is mild, but it provides me with a great sexual pleasure. My wife who is an intellectual, however, is not too keen on wearing pantyhose for me. We have been married for about 10 years now. I was honest with her since the beginning about my fetish, I have to add that I love my wife tremendously.
Although I try to the best of my ability to fulfill all her sexual fantasies, she does very little to fulfill mine. I am feeling more and more sexually frustrated. Help me please with some advice. How can I convince her to share with me this fetish? How can I make her understand it and consider it?
Although your fetish for pantyhose may not be the same with all men, your problem or complaint is very similar. This is so common with married couples today. You love your partner, but you want your partner to do specific things, wear certain things, talk dirty or sexy maybe even visit a swing club.
You finally get up the nerve to request this from your partner and they either get upset or agree but show little changes if any at all. Now what should you do?
This is one of the most common questions I am asked. You don't want a divorce, yet you don't want to live the rest of your life without fulfilling some of your fantasies.
When I work with couples, my advice is to clearly express your desires and request with your partner. Explain that life is a give and take, full of compromises. For each compromise or concession, you in turn would be willing to offer the same.
If you can change the dynamics, the more your partner does for you, the more you do for your partner, the better the marriage.
Good luck and let me know if she starts dressing in stockings and heels.