August 07, 2002 03:55pm
Swingers and Porn Stars, Things in Common - From the Trenches
Source: Courtesy of DaveCummings.com
by: Dave Cummings
Swingers and some Porn Stars have a few things in common. We recognize that sex is OK, as is love making! Some of the activity in swinging is about having sex; some of the essence in a relationship is about making love.
Having sex is usually more physical than emotional, while making love is more intimate, sensual, and emotional - at least, that's been my personal observations! Being on a set is like being at a swing party in that the action is sex, not the love making that's more often found in a committed relationship. Having said that, I've noticed that some girl/girl couplings on porn sets and at swinger events are sometimes less sex and more intimacy --- I think we guys can learn a lot from watching women have sex with other females!
Let me report to you about the Free Speech Coalition's annual "Night of the Stars" dinner-dance and awards event recently held in Woodland Hills (where one of the after-parties included a girl/girl get-together with Sunset Thomas and Jewels Jade - Jewels was my "date" for the evening).
Following a Reception with hors d'oeuvres and cocktails, along with a high class "silent auction", we adjourned to the hotel ballroom for the Awards Ceremony. The women were attired in beautiful evening gowns, some of which were somewhat scanty and caught the attention of the hotel's conservative-looking/acting security crew; the porn girls felt somewhat intimidated by the security people, so there was no overt "flashing" happening, much to the dismay of the many adult magazine photographers covering the event!
Many deserving Industry Icon's were honored, including Lifetime Achievement Awards for Ginger Lynn, Tom Byron, and Peter North; I was awarded the Positive Image Award; and Larry Flynt made spirited and well-received remarks. After that, dinner was served, followed by dancing.
A lot of sexy girl/girl dancing was taking place, though they "behaved" more than usual due to the constant presence of the security "holy priests". Later, Jewels and I attended a party hosted by Sean Michaels, the 2000 winner of the Positive Image Award. Arriving at his suite and finding photographers who were in need of some naughty photos for their magazines, Jewels and I obliged them with her giving me head for close to 30 minutes---though it was strictly sex, not love-making, my eyes were rolling and my toes were curling!
After mingling a bit with other guests, Sunset Thomas and Jewels decided that they were in lust and wanted to "do" each other; so, we snuck out to Sunset's suite where her Significant Other and I enjoyed watching them practically devour each other in a very intense, yet intimate and sensuous, way. As they were nearing exhaustion, Ron Jeremy repeatedly knocked on the door (at first, I was going to joke around and tell him go away and that there was no food in the suite, but when he yelled that he had a girl with him, we welcomed them in); Ron is a super guy, his date was great, and we all had a nice time.
Recently, off camera at my condo in San Diego, Ron and I "honored" a horny request from Jewels for a double penetration (I was in her vagina while Ron was buried deep in her anus) for what must have been two non-stop hours --- hey, she was a friend in need!! It was sex, not love making, but it was fun and satisfying.
Before I run out of space in this column, let me tell you about a fun time I recently enjoyed in a non-sex role in a movie produced by Shanna McCullough, and directed by Jim Enright for Wicked Pictures. Its working title is "Second Chances" and includes a huge cast of top-notch actresses and actors, with the makings of a potentially award-winning film. The team of McCullough and Enright is extremely talented and gifted, a couple rich in professionalism. Everyone on set was happy, smiling, laughing and efficient!
In closing, let me get briefly back to the subject of swinging. While attending a San Diego swing party last weekend, I was pleasantly surprised to look up from having sex with a girl and see a well-known porn couple along with three other adult actresses at the party. It was like family members bumping into each other at a supermarket. Indeed, the porn world is not unlike a family; and the swinging world also is a somewhat close-knit group of sexual people. Both groups have a lot in common.
Fall elections are coming up. Now is the time to become familiar with the record of incumbents, and the positions of challengers. Register Now, learn about the issues and the candidates, and Actually vote in every eligible election at All levels. Keep in mind that it's not just national and state elections that are important-indeed, local officials can cause a lot of unnecessary grief if the wrong ones get into power and start instituting restrictions against the people's freedom to enjoy adult entertainment. Get involved, get informed, get registered (NOW), Vote!
Lastly, please join me in being ever mindful and thankful to our military folks and others who go into harm's way to protect us, our Constitution, our freedoms, and our right to vote. People die protecting out freedom to vote. Let's show them Our thanks and appreciation by registering and voting!